Comments on: What comes first – changing the belief or changing the circumstance. . .the classic Chicken or the Egg? http://tiaracoaching.com/community/tiarablog/what-comes-first-%e2%80%93-changing-the-belief-or-changing-the-circumstance-the-classic-chicken-or-the-egg/ Exceptional Women's Coaching Thu, 02 Feb 2012 23:37:07 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Christine http://tiaracoaching.com/community/tiarablog/what-comes-first-%e2%80%93-changing-the-belief-or-changing-the-circumstance-the-classic-chicken-or-the-egg/comment-page-1/#comment-11 Christine Tue, 26 Jan 2010 09:59:35 +0000 http://tiaracoaching.com/?p=1123#comment-11 Thanks Beth for your honest sharing,it helps to hear this from the powerful person that you are (you see, even her!). When I'm stuck I am disappointed and tired of 'having proof' there is reason to be disappointed: that I'm not producing enough work and income, insufficient tangible results.... somehow I believe I need too 'earn' my existence. In good moments, like now, with the year turning double digit and my age over 50, the earthquake that's showing the fragility of organized life, I really 'get' that life is about experiencing, awareness, creation, sharing and enjoying love, warmth and joy. It all starts in the mind, and I need other people to help me get there, by remembering me how much fun they are, life and play together is. My way out of a stuck place: participate, connect get aware, enjoy and share! Stop thinking, just do it! Thanks Beth for your honest sharing,it helps to hear this from the powerful person that you are (you see, even her!).

When I’m stuck I am disappointed and tired of ‘having proof’ there is reason to be disappointed: that I’m not producing enough work and income, insufficient tangible results…. somehow I believe I need too ‘earn’ my existence.

In good moments, like now, with the year turning double digit and my age over 50, the earthquake that’s showing the fragility of organized life, I really ‘get’ that life is about experiencing, awareness, creation, sharing and enjoying love, warmth and joy.

It all starts in the mind, and I need other people to help me get there, by remembering me how much fun they are, life and play together is.

My way out of a stuck place: participate, connect
get aware, enjoy and share! Stop thinking, just do it!

]]> By: Beth http://tiaracoaching.com/community/tiarablog/what-comes-first-%e2%80%93-changing-the-belief-or-changing-the-circumstance-the-classic-chicken-or-the-egg/comment-page-1/#comment-10 Beth Fri, 22 Jan 2010 23:11:56 +0000 http://tiaracoaching.com/?p=1123#comment-10 Well, since I posted the blog, I have been experimenting with adjusting my flame and going with a 'Medium flame' this week and it was been really great. I found that I am actually a lot more compassionate to myself and others and also more creative. I have reached out to people and have made great connections for others. I like the feeling of "space" and "calm" this pace is providing me. And, I still feel like I am moving things on my projects list forward. I like it! Well, since I posted the blog, I have been experimenting with adjusting my flame and going with a ‘Medium flame’ this week and it was been really great. I found that I am actually a lot more compassionate to myself and others and also more creative. I have reached out to people and have made great connections for others. I like the feeling of “space” and “calm” this pace is providing me. And, I still feel like I am moving things on my projects list forward. I like it!

]]> By: Betsy http://tiaracoaching.com/community/tiarablog/what-comes-first-%e2%80%93-changing-the-belief-or-changing-the-circumstance-the-classic-chicken-or-the-egg/comment-page-1/#comment-9 Betsy Thu, 21 Jan 2010 16:04:22 +0000 http://tiaracoaching.com/?p=1123#comment-9 I love the idea of "adjusting our flame" and not feeling like we have to be on high all the time. That definitely is a scenario for burn out! Great reminder to look at our core beliefs in the areas we're stuck. I'll let you know what I discover. I love the idea of “adjusting our flame” and not feeling like we have to be on high all the time. That definitely is a scenario for burn out!

Great reminder to look at our core beliefs in the areas we’re stuck. I’ll let you know what I discover.

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